Ponder this-

?'s---Is it cockiness when you can back up what you proclaim, is it rude if you are proven right. Does the appearance discredit the results.

A's--- No, Yes and Yes

Let's say you tell your child to not run out into the street and then they start to run out into the street and you then apply "the hand of wisdom to their seat of learning" are you a good parent or abusive. Oooo tough one huh, how about if you let them run out and get hit by a car, now are you a caring parent who didn't want to "infringe" on your child's creative release or you just didn't want to "force" your ideals or morals onto your child or are you a parent who didn't pay attention and let your child be run over? just wondering